First, I want to say that thoughts and prayers go to all involved and affected by the Navy Yard shooting today in Washington, D.C.. What a horrible tragedy and we hope all of those injured and grieving families are brought relief and peace.
My article today originally was going to be on people’s thoughts on Baltimore Ravens’ quarterback Joe Flacco missing his child’s birth yesterday for his team’s football game.
I for one was shocked. I come from a hockey background where men routinely miss games for the arrival of their children. I understand that football is 100x more popular, therefore much more of a business, but, come on.
My opinion is that no man within realistic time and warning should ever miss the birth of a child. What message does that send to the child? You weren’t as important as a football game was? In essence, yes, that is exactly what that says to the child, his other children, extended family, and now all who know about it.
This sets a terrible precedent and I believe this shows one of the many reasons we have lost our way in this society. It proves that we have many lessons we haven’t learned from history and civilizations before us that thought they knew better.
I just want the reader to sit and think about one thing: what is the ultimate purpose of life? Just take a minute to think about that.
Me, personally, I believe that the purpose of life is to get to Heaven. You work towards Heaven and help those whom you come in to contact with do the same – namely your wife/husband, then your surrounding family.
I think some might say that the purpose of life is to pro-create and develop the next generation. Another great answer which I believe to be true as well.
I don’t know anywhere in there that says, “watch, play, or think about football”. (Or add in your favorite sport, profession, or activity)
During the homily at mass yesterday, the priest talked about God being more important than food and water. That is a large concept to grasp but extremely important.
Whether you believe in God or not is not the point. The point is realizing there is something bigger out there than all of us. We aren’t here for ourselves. We are here to serve one another and grow bright and promising youth. Whether it is our spouse first, second our kids, then third our extended family and friends.
Why have our priorities gone by the waste-side? What has made us think that a profession or money is somehow more important than our own family?
Family is easy to take for granted, you always feel like they are going to be there for you. And, a lot of times they are no matter what. But, in the end, they are the only thing that you have. Friends come and go, but no one will ever love you like family does or have that special bond with you.
Not to mention this sets a bad precedent for men and women. Men continue to look bad and women are made to deal with life-altering events by themselves. If we were designed to work like this we would be asexual. That’s just science.
Oops, did I just mix religion and science? Yes, yes I did.